'Now he's telling people I "stole" their dog': A year after nourishing an abandoned dog, woman's ex-boyfriend claims it's his new girlfriend's, demanding the dog back but not providing evidence of ownership

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    I "stole" my ex-boyfriend's dog but I didn't know it was his (and I still don't really believe it was)
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    I'm a huge tea lover, so I'm always at the little tea shop near my place. It became part of my routine just something that helped me clear my mind. Around the same time, I started noticing this dog hanging around the area. He looked really rough... thin, dirty, clearly not well taken care of. Every time I left the tea shop, he'd follow me down the street, quietly tagging along like he had nowhere else to go.
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    At first, I thought maybe he belonged to someone nearby, but the more I saw him, the more concerned I got. He looked worse with time super skinny, coat patchy, and just... sad. I started asking around neighbors, people who lived nearby, even the tea shop owners but no one knew anything about him. No collar. No one was looking for him. He seemed completely forgotten.
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    Eventually, I couldn't ignore it anymore. I brought him home, gave him a proper meal, and made sure he had a safe place to sleep. I took him to the vet the very next day. He was underweight, had a skin condition, and needed vaccinations and treatment. I got him microchipped under my name, paid for everything, and made sure he got the love and care he clearly hadn't been getting.
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    Over the course of a year, he changed completely he gained healthy weight, his fur came back, his energy returned, and he became my shadow in the best way. Not once in that time did I see any signs that someone was looking for him. No posters. No local posts. Nothing.
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    Then last week, I posted a photo of him on social media just a happy, cozy picture of him sleeping on my rug and out of nowhere, my ex- boyfriend messaged me.
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    He asked me where I got the dog from. I was confused. We live just down the road from each other, and when we were together, he never mentioned owning a dog. I never saw one at his place, never saw him walking one nothing. I asked him for a photo to prove the dog was his, and he said he didn't have any. Claimed he never took pictures, but insisted the dog was his.
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    Then he changed the story said it was actually his new girlfriend's dog, and they bought him "a while ago." That made even less sense, because I had been seeing this dog on the street before they even started dating. And if it was truly their dog, why was it always alone, sick, and wandering?
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    I told him I wasn't giving the dog back. I've been the one who cared, fed, treated, and loved him for over a year now. I've spent hundreds on vet care. The microchip and medical records are all in my name. I did everything right.
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    Now he's telling people I "stole" their dog. But where were they when he was starving on the street? Where were they when he needed help? So... am I the bad person here? Or did I just do what any decent human would've done?
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    Realistic_Train2976 • 46m ago Block this dude and never look back. Live a happy life with your dog.
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    Mishlaki ⚫ 1h ago Let me preface this by saying I am most definitely not a lawyer lol. However I have heard a lot in this subreddit and others that according to most laws and regulations that if the dog is micro chipped and you have vet paperwork then *technically the dog is yours. Personally yes I think you did the right thing!
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    mstamper2017 • 24m ago This is correct. I microchip abused, neglected dogs in my area for this exact reason. It's a civil suit, and the other party would have to take you to court. Chips and med records make the dog yours. Don't answer the other party and go on. They can threaten all they want, there isn't anything to worry about after a year has past.
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    Outrageous-Advice 384⚫ 6m ago Judge Judy would allow the dog to choose and I bet the dog would choose OP. I doubt the ex's story (no pictures??? Not in this day and age!)
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    brieflifetime • 51m ago He can pony up receipts and records if he's telling the truth. Thats what they'd expect in court. And if they bought him.. they'd have those. You saved a life, he's for trying to steal that either a from you or he's al for how he treated his dog. I'm sure you've pointed out the gross negligence and abe the dog was clearly suffering when you found it...
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    rowdyfreebooter • 52m ago Tell him to report it to the police because you have evidence that the dog was malnourished and had not been treated for a medical condition when you went to the vet and the authorities would be keen to speak to him or his girlfriend.
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    Optipop • 56m ago You are most definitely not it the wrong. If he can't produce pictures or vet records he has no proof he ever owned the dog. I truly suspect he's just stirring the pot and never had a dog. Thank you for giving this sweet pup a new, loving home and taking great care of him. Let the ex boyfriend talk. When people ask just explain you found him on the street in very poor condition. Your ex will look like aj
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    Renmarkable ⚫ 53m ago You are a good egg THANK YOU
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    Prior_Talk_7726 • 37m ago You are a savior! You didn't steal his dog. Dog probably wasn't his. Sounds like he's lying, but on the slim chance he's telling the truth, he doesn't deserve the dog if he couldn't take care of it properly!
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    Broccoli-Tiramisu • 58m ago He's clearly lying to you. Don't believe a word he says, just block him and never talk to him again. Keep loving your little buddy and I wish you many years of wonderful adventures together!
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    Hi-its-Mothy⚫ 1m ago He's gaslighting you. Thanks for rescuing the pup

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